Comments on: To Bully or Anti-Bully – Is that the question?? http://warrenhenningsen.com/to-bully-or-anti-bully-is-that-the-question/ Warren Henningsen is an International Bestselling Author, Speaker and Success Builder. He is a motivated individual who truly believes that anything that one sets their mind to they can achieve. Mon, 27 Jun 2011 04:34:37 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2 By: Basketball Jerseys http://warrenhenningsen.com/to-bully-or-anti-bully-is-that-the-question/comment-page-1/#comment-465 Basketball Jerseys Wed, 09 Jun 2010 20:26:28 +0000 http://warrenhenningsen.com/?p=143#comment-465 I have no doubt this site Bookmark and share it with my friends. You will be getting plenty of visitors to your web site from me! I have no doubt this site Bookmark and share it with my friends. You will be getting plenty of visitors to your web site from me!

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]]> By: Ena Loughner http://warrenhenningsen.com/to-bully-or-anti-bully-is-that-the-question/comment-page-1/#comment-450 Ena Loughner Mon, 07 Jun 2010 16:47:27 +0000 http://warrenhenningsen.com/?p=143#comment-450 I think that is an interesting point, it made me think a bit. Thanks for sparking my thinking cap. Sometimes I get so much in a rut that I just feel like a record. I think that is an interesting point, it made me think a bit. Thanks for sparking my thinking cap. Sometimes I get so much in a rut that I just feel like a record.

]]> By: Warren Henningsen http://warrenhenningsen.com/to-bully-or-anti-bully-is-that-the-question/comment-page-1/#comment-140 Warren Henningsen Tue, 20 Apr 2010 05:41:24 +0000 http://warrenhenningsen.com/?p=143#comment-140 Hi Maz, Thanks so much for your comment and your passion in what you are doing. I would love to connect with you and see what we can do together to not only increase the public awareness of this but also to make positive lasting change in this area all over the world. Please feel free contacting me directly on +61421 282 312 at your convenience. All my love, Warren. Hi Maz,

Thanks so much for your comment and your passion in what you are doing.

I would love to connect with you and see what we can do together to not only increase the public awareness of this but also to make positive lasting change in this area all over the world.

Please feel free contacting me directly on +61421 282 312 at your convenience.

All my love,

Warren.

]]> By: Maz and Ray Fellowes http://warrenhenningsen.com/to-bully-or-anti-bully-is-that-the-question/comment-page-1/#comment-138 Maz and Ray Fellowes Tue, 20 Apr 2010 02:42:59 +0000 http://warrenhenningsen.com/?p=143#comment-138 Hi Warren, we loved your article. My husband Ray and I are very passionate about this topic and are very much with you - putting energy into the "problem" simply feeds it. We have just published a book that you may be interested in "Magic tools to overcome bullying and other stressful stuff" An easy guide for teens and tweens to reclaim their self-esteem and create an awesome life! The book is based on the blueprint of our successful empowerment coaching program for adults and is tailored for this age group,however can be easily adapted to other ages. It is different as it is very much about the "solution" to bullying and negative behaviour (for both the bullies and the bullied). It has the life skills to empower kids for life (in every way!). We believe that parents and teachers play a big role in helping to empower children, although unfortunately they don't always have the skills themselves. Part of our aim is for the kids to become the teachers and teach others that life is meant to be easy and fun. As you have alluded to in your message, its important to have exposure to "life" in every way. It's not about the negative stuff that happens, it's all about how you handle it, move on and grow. If you understand how energy works (why we attract negative stuff and how to attract great stuff), have a healthy self-esteem and a well developed emotional intelligence the world is your oyster! The great thing is that young people get this very quickly when it is offered to them (or role-modelled). We piloted the book in schools as we have also written a teachers' guide to get the message out there and it was amazing how quickly the kids picked up the concepts. It reinforces that we all know this stuff, however forget it over time due to "conditioning". So our advice to parents is to: Encourage your children to live life to the full! Help them create a magic vision of how they want their life to be including how they want to think, how they want to feel, what they want to do. Help them acknowledge their strengths and feel great about themselves - discover that they are a special and unique package. When they are feeling negative help them think about what they do want - instead of what they don't want eg change "I don't want to be bullied" to "I am treated with love and respect", or " I don't want to fall of my bike", to "I always ride safely" If they are the recipient of negative behaviour help them understand that it's about the other person, not about them. Encourage them to take the energy out of it as much as possible (so they don't feed the situation). To let go! Support them in their desires and beliefs that they can do anything! Whoops, got a bit carried away. If you are interested there is more about the book and our beliefs on our website www.magictoolsforlife.com or our Facebook page "Magic tools to overcome bullying". Our vision is to see the magic rules and tools for life in our book available for kids around the world and any help in getting this message out there is deeply appreciated! Warmly Maz and Ray Maz and Ray Fellowes Magic Tools for Life PO Box 2092 Tranmere Tas 7018 e/ info@magictoolsforlife.com w/ www.magictoolsforlife.com m/ 0418 301 793 Hi Warren, we loved your article. My husband Ray and I are very passionate about this topic and are very much with you – putting energy into the “problem” simply feeds it. We have just published a book that you may be interested in “Magic tools to overcome bullying and other stressful stuff” An easy guide for teens and tweens to reclaim their self-esteem and create an awesome life!

The book is based on the blueprint of our successful empowerment coaching program for adults and is tailored for this age group,however can be easily adapted to other ages.

It is different as it is very much about the “solution” to bullying and negative behaviour (for both the bullies and the bullied). It has the life skills to empower kids for life (in every way!).

We believe that parents and teachers play a big role in helping to empower children, although unfortunately they don’t always have the skills themselves. Part of our aim is for the kids to become the teachers and teach others that life is meant to be easy and fun.

As you have alluded to in your message, its important to have exposure to “life” in every way. It’s not about the negative stuff that happens, it’s all about how you handle it, move on and grow. If you understand how energy works (why we attract negative stuff and how to attract great stuff), have a healthy self-esteem and a well developed emotional intelligence the world is your oyster!

The great thing is that young people get this very quickly when it is offered to them (or role-modelled). We piloted the book in schools as we have also written a teachers’ guide to get the message out there and it was amazing how quickly the kids picked up the concepts. It reinforces that we all know this stuff, however forget it over time due to “conditioning”.

So our advice to parents is to:

Encourage your children to live life to the full!

Help them create a magic vision of how they want their life to be including how they want to think, how they want to feel, what they want to do.

Help them acknowledge their strengths and feel great about themselves – discover that they are a special and unique package.

When they are feeling negative help them think about what they do want – instead of what they don’t want eg change “I don’t want to be bullied” to “I am treated with love and respect”, or ” I don’t want to fall of my bike”, to “I always ride safely”

If they are the recipient of negative behaviour help them understand that it’s about the other person, not about them. Encourage them to take the energy out of it as much as possible (so they don’t feed the situation). To let go!

Support them in their desires and beliefs that they can do anything!

Whoops, got a bit carried away. If you are interested there is more about the book and our beliefs on our website http://www.magictoolsforlife.com or our Facebook page “Magic tools to overcome bullying”.

Our vision is to see the magic rules and tools for life in our book available for kids around the world and any help in getting this message out there is deeply appreciated!

Warmly

Maz and Ray

Maz and Ray Fellowes
Magic Tools for Life
PO Box 2092
Tranmere Tas 7018
e/ info@magictoolsforlife.com
w/ http://www.magictoolsforlife.com
m/ 0418 301 793

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